Pppsssssttttt! .....Psstt....shhht!
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at this VERY present moment, I’m excusing myself from my own kitchen, as it has been taken over by a Russian girl who’s a friend of Alessandro’s.
Flying poop-balls! Bad vibe from the get-go! Eek!...but no...wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt. Tried to engage in conversation, and she didn’t look at me at ALL!...just glances...
I think she’s TOTALLY into Alessandro, and finding me a bit threatening. She’s cooking right now for us, and I can’t stay in there. There’s essentially no room in there for me....”there are no napkins in here, no nothing at all?” is what she said. And no, I don’t have a cheese grater! Hahaha, she’s criticizing my kitchen! Should I be taking offence? I'm Asian! And I just moved in less than a month ago, so NO I don't have a cheese grater!
I’ve snuck off and I’m writing this, maybe it’s petty, but it’s my defense/revenge. I considered retort-ing to her annoyingness, but she’ll be gone in a couple of hours. I should be curteous to guests. (** added comment post-posting; I didn't realize that I misspelled COURTEOUS before...and damn; I'm not changing it. Take it as a freudian slip)
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Ok, I just got back from dinner with them.
We ate for 45 minutes. She talked for 45 minutes. I asked her questions. She answered them, and then spoke. And then spoke some more. Alessandro asked some questions, and made some comments. She continued speaking. In none of those moments did she ask or inquire about ANYTHING regarding either of us. Oh no wait, she asked Alessandro something about Poland.
THAT was a torturously annoying interaction.
I offered her whatever food I had left in the flat post dinner, and she thought I was mocking her! I think cause I only had very little left. In my defence, I was not aware that we would be having guests, therefore Ice Cream, Apples and a bit of cake is pretty good no? Definitely doing groceries tomorrow!
Sigh
I’m super careful now with all of this stuff...whenever I feel the need to criticize, or feel really bothered by another human. It’s a reflection of something within myself, I know it. Which keeps me in check really. I think I did the best I could at that dinner; made genuine conversation, asked questions. Shit though, I really couldn’t stand her.
“Thank you for cooking!” I say
“You didn’t even try it” She says...(This was right when we sat down to eat...)
What are you supposed to say to that?....
I said... “oh...uh....I.....I just wanted to thank you for making the food.....??”
Ugh
What a waste of life.
No wait, it’s not.
Ok fine, I’m going to bed.
Hugsalot
Patey:]
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3 comments:
Well, good comes from it I suppose, because you made me laugh. :)
Caught your photos on facebook too, nice little glimpse, and I like the clouds behind the cathedral as well.
pete! I miss you!
I totally realized just now that I failed to respond to your phone card quiery...
did you mean that I would use it to call people? Aside from that, I'd love to hear from you..seriously; call anytime; did I give you my number?
if you meant that I could use it, it's ok, cause I get my own phone cards here, and they're fine
hugs
hahahhahah
Some people are just plain assholes and it has nothing to do with you! But it sure sounds like she views you as a threat.
You're a maneater..:P
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